And there it ended

It is not easy for me to maintain this relationship with you”– He

“But we used to live together from several years. We will maintain this. I know.” -She

“Please try to understand my situation. I will not be able to maintain this relationship from distance.” -He

“But why not? I trust you, and so do you. Then what it will take, to maintain this?”–She

“See, I love you, but I am not going to come and meet you for months’. I will not be able to give you my time. And maybe I will not be able to talk to you for a week or so. We will not be happy. Just think and then response” -He

“In my life I just have you and if you still ask me for a response then this is really stupid of you. You are my life BETA(son).” -She

“That I know MA(mother), but you only tell me, after going to the USA, I will be far and will not able to come and see you. I think this is a better option that you will move  with me.” –She

“No son, it is not that easy to leave the place where my childhood belongs, where your father and I met and got married. The place where I spent my 67 years with different phase- happy, sad, emotional. I saw you growing here.” -She

“But Ma, if I will leave you here, I will not be happy there. See, if my father was alive, I would have left you. But in this condition- NO” -He

“Son, I don’t want to be a burden for you or your wife.” -She

“Seriously MA?…. Burden???” – He

“I just don’t want to leave INDIA.” -she 

“Are you sure? I should leave you alone here and go?” – He

“Yes, Son.” -She

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Next morning he dropped a mail to his manager-

Hi Ratan,

I thought about the promotion you offered to me.  But you know I just have 3 members in my family, and I don’t want to leave any one of them behind. If I will agree to move to the USA, my mother is not going to come with me. So, I apologize for denying your offer.

I am sure you will understand my situation. 

Thank you

Arjun.

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New Year = New Resolutions😇😇😇

With this great start of the new year 2019, I was thinking to take some resolutions.

First of all, what are the top 8 most common resolutions that usually people make:-

😂😂😂😂

• Lose / Gain weight
• Quit smoking
• Save money
• Learn a new hobby
• Utilize their time
• Read more
• Exercise
• Travel to a dream place

So, these are the common points which people are tired of adding😎 in their new year’s resolution list.😋😋😋😋

Give me a break…!!!😐😐😐

If there is something, I was not able to complete in the past year then I will make it as a resolution😇😇 and will try to do it in the coming year.

Why we wait for a year to end or a new year to start, to do what we really need or want to do?😉😉😉

So, I am going to take a resolution that- “😇Whatever I want to do, I will do it this year.😇😇😇”

I will not wait. I will not stop my self. 😎If I want it or really need it, I will do it.

So, What is your new year resolution?😃😃😃

Ooohh…!!! You can share.😃 I really want to know about this…!!!😇

My mom dad’s arranged cum Love marriage….!!!

Well, Love story?😁😁😁

I know it is hard to believe, but it is true- My mom and dad have not seen even the pictures of each other before marriage. 😜😜😜

But after the marriage, everyone thought it is a love-marriage.😇😇😇

How…?

Yes, I am going to tell that part also.😁

Well, at that time my father used to go to Asansol(92 km away from my place) for his job. And my mom’s uncle house was there. 

Also, my mom’s uncle was also in the same occupation, like my dad. 

So, that uncle was the mediator of the marriage. But due to the reason that the marriage took place from Asansol, everyone thought that “Both are in love and he comes to Asansol to meet her. They are in love for years and years…”😜😜😜

Well, my mom doesn’t live there in Asansol, but Peopllleee… They made the story and which was plotted nicely. Then what, everyone there took that marriage as- “Love Marriage”😁😁😁

That was not enough, my father’s family also started to take this marriage as Love marriage and due to which they thought of questioning my dad. 

Therefore just before marriage, my grandmother had a conversation with my dad

Grandma- “Everyone is talking that this is a love marriage. Is it true?”

Dad- “No. I don’t even know how she looks. How you thought about love. This is not true. If you agree then only I will marry otherwise I will not…”

Then what my grandmother has to believe my dad. 

And the “Arranged marriage” took place.

But people now also believe that they had “LOVE-MARRIAGE”…😂😂😂

Vibes

When you are strong enough, no one can break you.

Don’t get hurt by the words…!!! People talk. And let them talk. 

If you believe in yourself, no one can ever STOP you.

Take your positive vibes and you will see, you will get success…!!!

End leads to Bend…👍👍👍

“Stay Strong and calm till the End,

Every turning point takes place after a certain bend…!!!”💝💝💝

 

Some people have mailed me, that I am writing only motivated post nowadays… Why is it so? Is anything not going well? And all.

First of all, Thank you guys for your love and care, because I know at a certain level you guys are there for everyone.😊😊😊

Yes, I am going through some personal problem, and yes, it is tough for me.

But I am working hard to defeat it. Time will change for sure and I am eagerly waiting for my good time…

Thank you for all your blessings and Love…💞💞💞